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First-time buyers

Nobody is born knowing how this works.

Buying your first home comes with a lot of new words and a lot of waiting. I'll walk you through every step like a friend would, and I'll tell you the truth about where you stand.

How it works

Five steps, and about how long each one takes

  1. We talk

    Same day

    Tell me what you want, where you want to buy, and how you get paid. Reach out during the day and I'll usually get back to you that day.

  2. You gather documents

    A few days

    Pay stubs, bank statements, and your ID. We'll send you a list made for your file, so you're not guessing.

  3. We review your file

    A few days

    We go through everything the same way an underwriter would. That's when you get your pre-approval.

  4. You shop and make offers

    Your pace

    Offers move on the agent's clock. People tour at night and on weekends, so that's when I pick up the phone.

  5. Contract to closing

    A few weeks

    The appraisal, final underwriting, and a few more documents. Then you get your keys. In South Carolina, an attorney runs the closing.

Before you make an offer

Pre-qualified and pre-approved are not the same thing

Pre-qualified

  • A conversation about the numbers you tell me
  • Nobody has checked your documents yet
  • Good for a first look at your budget

Pre-approved

  • Your documents are in, and we've gone through them the same way an underwriter would
  • My team has over 20 years of underwriting experience
  • Listing agents take it seriously when you make an offer

A pre-approval still isn't a final approval or a rate lock. The home, the appraisal, and the title still have to check out.

What you'll need

Paperwork and cash, in plain English

Documents

  • Your ID
  • Pay stubs and W-2sSelf-employed? Your tax returns instead. Here's how that works.
  • Bank statements
  • A gift letter, if family is helping with cash
  • Your purchase contract, once you're under contract

I'll narrow this list to your file.

What you'll need cash for

  • Down payment
  • Closing costsFees for the loan, the title, and the attorney
  • Prepaids and escrowSome property taxes and homeowners insurance, paid up front
  • Moving, and your first month in the house

Before you make an offer, I'll put real numbers on each of these for your file.

A first-time buyer story

One closing

“That one’s all him.”

A Realtor I work with in Greenville called me about a client. First-time buyer. Nervous. And his credit was in rough shape. He'd already called other lenders and brokers, and nobody had given him the time.

So I called him. We slowed down. I walked him through where he stood and what it would take to get pre-approved. No shortcuts, just a plan.

Then he went to work. He did every single thing on that list. I checked in the whole way and answered every question as it came up.

Just under two years later, he bought his first home. That one's all him. And it started with an agent who cared enough to keep looking for help.

Questions I get a lot

Straight answers

How long does it take to buy a home once I'm under contract?

Usually a few weeks. The appraisal, underwriting, and final documents each take time, and the calendar moves when documents move. Once I see your contract, I'll give you a timeline for your file, not a guess.

What's the difference between pre-qualified and pre-approved?

Pre-qualified means we talked through numbers you gave me. Pre-approved means your documents are in and we've gone through them the same way an underwriter would. My team has over 20 years of underwriting experience. That's the one listing agents take seriously.

Do I need a big down payment to buy my first home?

No. Down payment is one piece of the file, not the whole thing. Credit, the loan program, and the cash you'll need at closing all matter. We start with what you actually have, not a number you saw in an ad.

Can family help with my down payment?

Often, yes. Most loan programs allow gift money from family. You'll need a gift letter and a paper trail showing where the money came from. The rules differ by program, so tell me early and I'll tell you exactly what your lender needs.

Is FHA only for first-time buyers?

No. FHA is open to repeat buyers too. It's popular with first-time buyers because it can work with a smaller down payment and a thinner credit history, but its mortgage insurance works differently. I'll show you how it compares to a conventional loan on your file.

Got a question that isn't here?

Text me. Every file is different, and I'll tell you what applies to yours.

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Joe Caleca

Joe CalecaSenior Loan Officer, Mpire FinancialNMLS 2302900

Ask me anything. I'll talk to you like a friend.